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AITA for asking guests to RSVP promptly?



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Question: "My fiancé and I are finalizing our wedding plans, and we've encountered delays because many guests haven't RSVPed yet. We set an RSVP deadline, but some are still non-committal. We're stressed because we need to give final numbers to vendors. Would it be rude to follow up and ask for RSVPs?"


Wedding Planner's Response:

Hey there! Dealing with RSVPs can indeed be stressful, but it's important to gather accurate numbers for vendors and ensure a smooth experience for everyone attending your wedding.


Here are some tips for managing RSVPs:

  1. Set Clear Deadlines: Clearly communicate the RSVP deadline on your invitations and wedding website. This gives guests a timeframe to respond and helps you plan accordingly.

  2. Follow Up Politely: If the deadline has passed and you haven't received responses from some guests, it's perfectly acceptable to follow up with a gentle reminder. You can reach out via phone call, email, or even a friendly message on social media.

  3. Provide Options: Make it easy for guests to RSVP by offering multiple ways to respond, such as through a designated website, email, or phone number. This flexibility can encourage prompt responses.

  4. Plan for Flexibility: Build in some buffer time between your RSVP deadline and when you need to finalize numbers with vendors. This allows for any last-minute changes or late responses.


Remember, timely RSVPs are a courtesy to both you and your vendors, ensuring that everyone can enjoy your wedding day to the fullest. By communicating clearly and following up respectfully, you can streamline the RSVP process and focus on celebrating your love.


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