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AITA for asking guests to travel to our destination wedding?



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Question: "My partner and I have always dreamed of a destination wedding in a picturesque location. We've found the perfect spot, but it's quite far from where most of our friends and family live. Some of them are upset, saying it's unfair to expect them to travel so far and incur expenses. Are we being selfish in asking our guests to travel?"


Wedding Planner's Response:

Hey there! Destination weddings can be a wonderful way to celebrate your love in a unique and beautiful setting. However, they do come with considerations regarding guest travel and expenses.

Here are a few tips to approach a destination wedding respectfully:


  1. Give Ample Notice: Send out save-the-date cards well in advance so that guests have time to plan and budget for the trip. This shows consideration for their schedules and financial situations.

  2. Provide Information: Include detailed information about travel options, accommodation recommendations, and local attractions in your wedding invitations or on your wedding website. This helps guests plan their trip more easily.

  3. Be Understanding: Recognize that not all guests may be able to attend due to travel constraints. Express your understanding and gratitude for their presence, whether they can make it or not.

  4. Consider Financial Assistance: If possible, offer to help offset some costs for guests, such as organizing group discounts for accommodations or transportation.


Remember, while it's your wedding day, the presence of loved ones is important. By being mindful of their needs and providing clear information, you can make your destination wedding a memorable and enjoyable experience for everyone involved.

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